How To Gracefully Handle Your Man’s Wandering Eyes
Let’s be honest for a second. Men like to look at women. Nothing is ever going to change that. No matter how much you don’t like it. Your guy is still going to look at other women. It’s important to note that he’s looking and not touching. That’s a whole different world. No woman should tolerate their man cheating on them. But, looking can be harmless. Though, it can make you uncomfortable. Here, we’re going to give you some tips on how you can handle it.
The first tip is simply the truth. Get over it. Your man will look at women. Every guy does it. If it were a perfect world he’d have blinders on and only see you. The world isn’t perfect. It can make you feel jealous and uncomfortable. At some point you’re going to have to get used to it.
Let him know in a tasteful way that it bothers you. There’s no need to lose your cool. Just be upfront and honest. Tell him that you really don’t like it. There’s looking and then there’s ogling. It may be possible that he doesn’t even realize it. Especially if the woman is extremely attractive. Just mention it and hope his eyes move on. That’s the best you can hope for in a situation like this.
Give him something better to look at. There may be a reason why he keeps looking at those other women. He might not like what he’s seeing. That might sound harsh at first. But, it’s common for women to lose their sense of being sexy. Especially if they have a full time job or spend all day looking after children. These are things that can make a woman feel anything but sexy. That’s not good enough for your man’s eye. You need to feel and look sexy. That’s the best way to get him to stop looking at other women. Make him look at you instead.
There are times when it’s all in your head. Some women are constantly afraid that their man is going to cheat on them. This is where the fear comes in about their wandering eye. Ask a friend or relative about your man. Do they think he has a wondering eye? It might be just your imagination. A second opinion is something what you need in situations like these. Don’t allow your relationship to crumble because of your suspicions. They simply may not be accurate.
A wandering eye isn’t always a bad thing. You can ask your man what he likes about the women he sees. Then you can try to be more like them. Don’t go out of your way to change yourself. But, there may be some small changes that you can make. Men are going to look. You look too. That’s the truth and you know it. Women look at men differently than men look at women. But, it still happens. Be honest about it and don’t hold it against your guy. After all, you probably recently looked at a guy for a little too long also.