“Age is an issue of mind over matter. If you don’t mind, it doesn’t matter.”

The Cougar's Guide To Dating Younger Men


In this day and age, with all of the emphasis on cougars and MILFs, older women are realizing their vivaciousness and pursuing relationships with younger men. Older women who are considering dating a younger man should definitely read on, to learn more about how to go about this tricky process.

Be Open To The Idea

If you are a woman who is trying to attract younger men into her orbit, you will need to make sure that you are truly open minded and ready for the idea. Our thoughts are very powerful and what we project into the world is what we tend to end up with. Setting your mental frequency to attract younger men will put out the vibe that you are interested and cause more worthy younger men to approach you.

Keep Expectations Low

When trying to date a man from a different age group, you may not have any idea what to expect. A younger man could be hot for you one day and cool off the next. Or he may surprise you by being more worldly and cultured than you could have possibly imagined. By keeping your expectations low, you are able to avoid letdowns, while still having a good time.

There Will Be Differences

By dating a younger man, you are gaining access to a whole new way of seeing the world. A younger man will view the world through a much different prism and his reference points are rarely going to be the same as yours. These differences are what make life interesting, so be sure to embrace them, as opposed to simply looking for a younger version of yourself.

Let Him Be Himself

The idea of a cougar lends itself to the mental image of a woman stalking her prey and having various young suitors lined up around the block. Younger men, however, tend to be much more sexually enlightened in modern times and may know how to take the reins. If he is a forceful sort, sit back and let him take control. You just might end up pleasantly surprised at where you end up.

He Could Be More Experienced

Depending on your dating past, he just might have more sexual partners than you do, especially if you spent elongated periods of your 20s and 30s with the same person. Nowadays, sexuality is viewed as a valuable tool for self-expression, so don't be alarmed if his body count happens to be a bit higher than yours.

Dating younger man is not always as complicated as it may seem. By remaining open minded about all of the possibilities that lie in front of you, you can learn more about how to successfully date younger men and have the relationship that you have always wanted.